Last night I typed up a thousand words on something I was very angry about. It’s been eating me up for weeks, and last night I let it all out. I ranted, blustered, shook, cried, and…
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I’ve been “working on a book” for what feels like forever now. What that really means is that I’ve written an outline, a couple chapters, and then have sat wringing my hands and doubting myself for…
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It’s been a little quiet here at The Olive Gal lately. And for no good reason. I told myself when I started this blog more than two years ago that I wouldn’t just crank out blogs to…
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It’s your 5th birthday today. A pretty big deal. Five years ago, you came into this world and you changed everything. So much can happen in five years. Five years before you came, I hadn’t met…
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Every once in a while in a marriage, you come to a crossroads. Should we keep slugging away and work through this thing? Or should we just split up? During a recent, ridiculous argument, I came…
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Every New Year, us humans have an innate tendency to reflect on the 365 days we survived and look ahead to the 365 to come. We can’t help it, it’s a thing we do. (And me…
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The Feast of the Seven Fishes. It wouldn’t be Italian Christmas Eve without them. As far back as I can remember, Christmas Eve was my absolute favorite night of the year. The day was spent in feverish…
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Normally I’m all about respecting each holiday’s dance space, but this year my psyche is all “fuck you, Thanksgiving, you killed the Indians” and has moved right from Halloween into Christmas. And with that move, I’ll gorge…
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That Laura Ingalls Wilder. She knew a thing or two about surviving tough times. She slept in a covered wagon and ate dinner by campfire. She lived in a bungalow dug into the banks of a creek…
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This morning in San Jose, the sky was ominous and dark and the rain fell in sheets. As I stared out the window of our 10th floor office, I saw a flash of light in the sky…
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